A kind word is an invaluable treasure, a double-edged weapon, it is able to build bridges of love and communication, and is also able to tear down relationships and cause deep wounds. Therefore, it is very important to realize the power of a kind word and its impact on our lives and the lives of others.
The concept of a kind word:
A good word is every good word that brings pleasure to the hearer's heart, removes worry and sorrow from him, encourages him to do good, and brings him closer to Allah, may he be exalted. The kind word includes many types, including:
Dhikr and praise: such as saying "hallelujah","praise be to Allah","there is no God but Allah" and"Allahu Akbar".
Dua: praying to oneself and others for good and success.
Good advice: give advice and guidance gently and wisely.
Praise and praise: praise others for their good deeds and good qualities.
Pleasant words: as saying "Thank you","please","Good Morning", "Good evening".
Encouraging words: "you are capable","don't despair","keep going".
The importance of a good word:
The importance of a kind word is manifested in several aspects, including:
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "the good word is charity".
Bring love and intimacy: a kind word brings hearts closer and removes enmity and hatred, the Almighty said:"push the one that is better, so that the one between you and him enmity is like an intimate Guardian".
Ease the pains and worries: a kind word relieves the anxious, entertains the sad and encourages the desperate.
Spreading good and reform: a kind word contributes to spreading good among people and reforming society.
Improving social relations: a kind word strengthens interpersonal relationships, increases understanding and harmony.
Effects of the good word:
A good word has great effects on the individual and society, including:
On the individual: it improves his psychological condition, removes worry and anxiety from him, and makes him feel happy and satisfied.
To the community: contribute to building a loving, united society dominated by respect and appreciation.
How to accustom ourselves to the kind word
Thinking before speaking: we must think carefully before saying any word, and make sure that it is a kind word that does not hurt others.
Avoid obscene and hurtful words: we must stay away from obscene and hurtful words that hurt others and cause them pain.
Practice using kind words: we must train ourselves to use kind words in our daily lives.
Imitating the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was the best-spoken and kindest of people, so we must imitate him in that.
Examples of kind words:
Say "may Allah reward you well" when giving thanks to someone.
Saying "God bless you" when praying to someone.
Saying "God gives you well-being" when asking a person about his condition.
Say "Good Morning" or "good evening" when greeting others.
Saying" go ahead " when offering something to someone.
In short, the good word is the key to hearts and one of the doors of goodness, so let's make sure to use it in our daily lives to spread love and peace among people and get the satisfaction of Allah Almighty.
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